The Three Habits That Will Change Your Life
When clients come to me for a tarot reading or a past life session, they are often in a place where they want to make a change for the better. They are in the process of trying to manifest their biggest dreams of love, success, happiness or abundance and don’t know where to start.
Take These Three Actions on a Daily Basis
If a client is committed to making their dreams come true, I advise them on adopting these three habits to truly transform their lives. The key word here is habits. These are not things that you can do just once and see a change. If you want to become a manifesting master, you have to commit to doing these things daily. Making these positive changes part of your routine will plant the seeds for real transformation in your life.
Give Your New Habits at Least Thirty Days to Take Hold
I recommend giving these habits at least a month to take hold and really see a dramatic difference. Although many of my clients start to experience manifestations in days or even hours, some bigger manifestations may take some time. If you don’t see dramatic results immediately, don’t give up. Keep it up for at least a month and you will definitely see the positive effect that these manifesting secrets can have on your life.
Manifest Your Dreams With Positive Affirmations
Telling yourself the story that you want to hear versus a negative reality of what is going on will get the manifesting ball rolling. Affirmations are spoken words that create beliefs and beliefs create our reality. Think about this, if you are constantly thinking “I’ll never be rich,” how likely is it that you’ll be wealthy?
The first step you need to take is to recognize your negative thoughts and then come up with a positive affirmation that is both true and the thing that you want to manifest. State it in the positive and in the present tense.
If you are feeling poor, saying “I want to be prosperous” is a good first step but saying “Abundance flows to me easily” is infinitely more powerful.
If you’re feeling lonely, you could say, “I will fall in love someday,” but it would be even better to say “My true love and I meet in the perfect timing.”
It’s not enough just to think these affirmations, you need to say them out loud to break the cycle of negative thinking and replace those negative beliefs that you’re holding with strong powerful ones.
State your affirmations out loud every day as you’re getting ready to start your day and you will start to see real shifts in your life with more and more goodness coming your way.
Manifest Your Dreams With a Gratitude Journal
A gratitude journal is a book where you write down what you’re grateful for and the positive intentions that you have for the future.
The process is simple. In the morning or evening, sit down with your journal and write two pages. On the first page, write down what you’re grateful for in your life right now, for example, “I love my amazing friends” or “I’m so happy that I have a good job.”
On the second page, write your gratitude intentions, the things that you want in your life. The secret to this is to write them as if they are already here. For example, if you want to start a successful business, write “I am so thankful for my prosperous new business.” The process of writing this in the present tense powerfully sets your manifestation in motion.
Doing this on a daily basis will spark amazing positive things coming your way and you’ll love looking back through your journal at the things that you have since manifested that were once merely wishes and dreams.
If you want to see a gratitude journal in action, check out my video showing you exactly how to create one.
Manifest Your Dreams by Speaking in the Positive
This last one is sometimes the most difficult habit to adopt for my clients. Many times we get in the habit of complaining about the things going wrong in our lives to others. Somehow, this complaining (and the comfort that we get when we complain to our friends and family) makes us feel closer to our loved ones. However, when we speak about our lives in the negative to others, we are merely solidifying the things that we are complaining about and activating getting more of those negative things.
Check yourself. Are you complaining about not having enough money, love, success? Whenever you catch yourself doing this, stop yourself and tell the story in a different way.
For example, if you’re saying, “I keep going on dates with complete losers” stop yourself and take the story in a different direction. You could add something like, “I may not be clicking with the people I’m meeting now, but it’s helping me to figure out what’s important to me. They may not be right for me, but if I keep going, I will really increase my chances of meeting someone that I do connect with.”
Bonus habit: Playing the “As If” game.
If you really want to amp up your manifesting abilities, then I recommend playing the “As If” game with a positive-thinking friend. It’s simple to do. Just get together with a friend and have a conversation where you pretend “as if” your life is the exact way you want it to be. Imagine that you want to write a book, but haven’t started. Your conversation may sound something like this:
Friend: Hey! I heard you wrote a book.
You: Yes! It’s amazing! I wrote that fantasy novel I’ve always want to write.
Friend: That’s awesome!
You: Yes, it was a really pleasant experience writing. The words just flowed out of me so easily. My editor was so helpful and kind. And you’re not going to believe this…
Friend: What?
You: It’s out now and it’s debuted at #1 in the New York Times Bestseller list.
Friend: Whoa!
You: Not only that, but I’ve gotten contacted by a couple of movie studios who want to buy the rights to the book and turn it into a feature film.
Friend: That’s amazing!
And on and on you two will go, sharing your biggest dreams as if they are already here. You will giggle with delight as you tell the story of your manifestations back and forth to each other and be in the perfect place to open up your manifestations coming to you quickly.
Manifest Your Dreams With These Habits Starting Today
I love it when my clients take these habits to heart and come back to me telling me about the beautiful things that they have manifested. You can do it too! Make these three (plus one) habits part of your daily life and you will be delighted as you manifest good thing after good thing and make your life the amazing adventure it was meant to be.
This article was written by Madame Pamita and was first published on YourTango and Medium.
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