Come to Me Moving Candle Spell

Come To Me Moving Candle Spell

This is a transcript of my Come To Me Moving Candle Spell video. To watch the video, click the image above.

Hi, I’m Madame Pamita and this is Madame Pamita’s Parlour of Wonders. You can find me at

What is a moving Candle Spell?

Today, I’m going to be showing you a moving candle spell. A moving candle spell is a spell where you are lighting candles over several days and moving them closer together or moving them in some direction to mimic what it is that magically you want to accomplish. The simple moving candle spell that I’m going to be showing you is one to bring a love into your life, to have someone come to you, to have your true love come to you.

What You Will need for a Come to Me Spell

So what you’ll need for this spell is two candles. These beautiful figural candles are made exclusively by me. They’re made out of beeswax, 100% beeswax, and artisanally made and they’re available through my website or in my shop.

If you are wanting to have a relationship come into your life, this is the perfect set of candles to use. What I’m going to pretend is that this is my candle representing me. I would use the female candle to represent me and use a male candle to represent a man coming into my life. Of course, you’re not limited to that paradigm. You can use a female candle with a female candle, a male candle with a male candle. But for our example, I’m going to use a male candle and me represented by the female candle.

Inscribing the Candles

The first step that you need to do is to name those candles. Now you know who you are and so you pick the candle that represents you, male or female, and then you’re going to write your name, scratch your name in the bottom of the candle, in the base of the candle. So I’m going to do that using a pencil. I like to use a pencil because it feels a little easier to manipulate than a nail. Some people like to use a knife or a ritual tool, but there I’ve written Pamita in the bottom of that candle that represents me.

In the male candle, you can name a particular person. If you’d like to write his or her name on the bottom, you can write the name of that particular person. Or you can be open ended and write “my true love,” or “my soul mate,” if you want to be a little more open ended about who that person is coming into your life or if you don’t know who that person is.

So I’m going to write on the bottom here, I’m going to write “my soulmate,” scratching that in. “My soulmate” is long. Okay, I’ve scratched that into the bottom of the candle.

Dressing the Candles

Next up, is that we’re going to dress these candles and I don’t mean we’re going to dress them in clothes, although they’re nude, we’re going to dress them with a spiritual oil. Spiritual oil is an oil with essential oils and herbs that support the work, that are historically known to support the work, that you’re going to be doing.

In this case, I’m going to use Lucky Mojo’s Come to Me oil. This is also available through my website and through my shop. This oil you’re going to apply to each candle and because you’re asking something to come into your life you’re going to apply it in an upward motion to each candle. It doesn’t take a lot. All you need to do is put a couple drops, a few drops on your hands and apply it to the candle in an upward motion.

First, we’ll do it to the female candle then get a few more drops and apply it to the male candle. As you’re doing this, any of this work, you can think about this person coming into your life, think about what it will be like having that soulmate, having that true love come into your life as you’re doing this work.

Candle Placement

Another thing you’re going to want to have is a tray of some kind to do this work because these candles are going to move, are going to be burning and going to be melting and so you don’t want to put this directly on a table or directly on a tablecloth or anything where the wax would harm it. You want to have it in a contained area, so either a cookie sheet, some tin foil or a tray that you use for doing that work would be helpful.

Now, I’m going to set these candles facing each other because we’re going to have these two people come together and using…I’m going to give it a little extra something. I’m going to create a trail of catnip.

Catnip is traditionally used to bring your man toward a woman or bring someone toward you and I’m going to bring that trail from the candle representing me to the man. The catnip I’m using is organic catnip. It has, I think, a little extra something because it’s organic and that’s also available through my website as well.

The First Day

All right, now we’re set to begin our work. This work that I’m going to be doing is a seven day spell, meaning we’re going to be burning these candles a little bit at a time over seven days. So we begin by lighting the female candle. You can say your intention, say a prayer, say what it is that you want. “I light this candle to bring my soulmate to me,” is a good example. Let me get the candle lit.

And then you light the male candle or the other candle of the other person. “I light this candle to bring my soulmate to me, come to me.” All right, you’re going to let those candles burn. You want to eyeball those candles and see if they burn about one-seventh of the way down, you know a little estimate, about half an inch or so.

Let those candles burn over time and then when the time has come to put them out, you want to snuff those candles out using a snuffer. You can use a shot glass, a tea cup or an official snuffer, where you are snuffing the flame out instead of blowing the flame out. Blowing the flame out ends the spell work and you don’t want to do that. So after you’ve seen the candle burn about a seventh of the way down, you’re going to snuff that candle out like so, putting that work on pause.

The Following Days

The next day you’re going to do your second day’s work. You’re going to move the candle of the one you want to bring to you one step closer. Again, you’re going to light those candles let them burn a little more of the way down and then snuff them out.

The third day you’re going to move that candle along that trail one step closer to you, light each candle let it burn one-seventh of the way down and then snuff it out. Each day you’re going to move one step closer until the last day you’ll have a short little bit of wax left at the bottom and have those two piles of wax touching each other and let them burn completely out.

You’ll have some melted wax at the bottom after they’ve burnt completely. You want to take that melted wax and bury it somewhere near your house. Either in a potted plant in your home or in your garden at your home. Somewhere where you’re inviting that love to come to your home. It’s a very simple spell, a very straightforward spell but a very powerful spell to bring your true love to you.

I’m Madame Pamita. You can find me at and thanks for joining me today.

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